The man cave came about because of the valid need of every person in a household to have a space to call their own. Sometime in the second half of the twentieth century, decorating became the wife’s job, leaving men living in spaces designed by and usually for women. So it’s no wonder they crept down to the basement and hung neon beer signs and curled up in the La-Z-Boy you relegated there soon after moving in together. Everybody needs a space where they feel comfortable, so create a space with furniture scaled just for him. Let him have a recliner if it gives him joy—Restoration Hardware sells surprisingly attractive ones.
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The man cave came about because of the valid need of every person in a household to have a space to call their own. Sometime in the second half of the twentieth century, decorating became the wife’s job, leaving men living in spaces designed by and usually for women. So it’s no wonder they crept down to the basement and hung neon beer signs and curled up in the La-Z-Boy you relegated there soon after moving in together. Everybody needs a space where they feel comfortable, so create a space with furniture scaled just for him. Let him have a recliner if it gives him joy―Restoration Hardware sells surprisingly attractive ones.
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If you’re both working, see if you can afford occasional housekeeping services. Housework is, after money, the biggest cause of marital disputes. Having help even every other week can help ensure that neither partner feels an unfair burden of the housework. Unfortunately, living with another person of widely different tidiness habits can be a challenge. Both partners may have to adjust their expectations about neatness. If you’re tidy and he’s a slob, you might just need to accept that the house isn’t always going to look immaculate. If you can keep one room up to your standards, it can be the place you retreat to experience peace and orderliness.
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6 of 8The man cave came about because of the valid need of every person in a household to have a space to call their own. Sometime in the second half of the twentieth century, decorating became the wife’s job, leaving men living in spaces designed by and usually for women. So it’s no wonder they crept down to the basement and hung neon beer signs and curled up in the La-Z-Boy you relegated there soon after moving in together. Everybody needs a space where they feel comfortable, so create a space with furniture scaled just for him. Let him have a recliner if it gives him joy—Restoration Hardware sells surprisingly attractive ones.






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